Pressure Filled Pastorate

“…pastors are constantly forced to choose, as they work through congregants’ daily wish lists in their e-mail and voice mail, between paths of personal integrity and those that portend greater job security. As religion becomes a consumer experience, the clergy become more unhappy and unhealthy.”

via G. Jeffrey MacDonald Op-Ed Contributor – Congregations Gone Wild – NYTimes.com.

Did you know this? It is a reason many pastors burn out.  There have been several great blogs already written about this (Chris Hildebrand from the Brooklyn Church Project and the fine folk over at iMonk), but I wanted to add a few thoughts of my own.

One of my seminary professors put it this way: “When you make your religion your vocation, you will inevitably lose one or the other.”

Think about it for a moment. The minute anything I do in the church becomes more about job security than it does about spirit led, Word informed, flock shepherding confidence, I have given a little more ground to giving up my faith at the expense of keeping a job and a paycheck. And with a wife and son on the way, believe me, this is a fierce temptation.

Yet, pastor MacDonald hammers the point home even more… we often hear this from parishioners who cry out for a “happy feeling” and sense of celebration. The message they bring back to the clergy and the elders is loud and clear, and sounds strikingly similar to what an advisory committee told Pastor MacDonald: “keep my sermons to 10 minutes, tell funny stories and leave people feeling great about themselves. The unspoken message in such instructions is clear: give us the comforting, amusing fare we want or we’ll get our spiritual leadership from someone else.”

I think that it is important for congregations to realize what their pastors have been called to do. It is to lead them to what is best for them, not what is easy or comfortable for them.

Even when the bleating of the sheep is so loud that it nearly deafens him.

Why?

Because, as Pastor MacDonald has pointed out, “At their courageous best, clergy lead where people aren’t asking to go, because that’s how the range of issues that concern them expands, and how a holy community gets formed.”

How would you say this needs to work out practically in our churches, small groups, bible studies, and informal times of meeting and gathering?

I am a pastor, a husband, a father, and a lover of Jesus. I am also an unpredictable blogger, who can go for several years without blogging a thing, and then inexplicably write a book. Perhaps this is one of those times.

Tagged with: , , ,
Posted in Culture
2 comments on “Pressure Filled Pastorate
  1. JennyRain says:

    Preach brother! I think the hardest thing to do is be a pastor in a church. Next to parenthood – leadership is the most crippling, mind-bending, under-appreciated, over-extended exercise in futility sometimes… yet God calls us to it.

    He CALLS us to it.

    Why for goodness sake? Because it takes us to the end of ourselves… and only when we are at the end of ourselves do we begin to be the most good for others.

    Dagnabit.

    Hence, why I hide behind a leader instead of becoming one myself (tee hee!) love my little safe place in the universe.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 876 other followers